VAGINISMUS TREATMENT IN SINGAPORE

What Is Vaginismus?
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Vaginismus is a condition where the muscles around the vagina involuntarily tighten or spasm, making light touch or penetration painful or impossible for many women. Sexual intercourse, tampon insertion, a gynecological examination, or even when trying to insert a finger, tightening of this area causes pain both physically and emotionally for many women and their partners too!
What Are The Types of Vaginismus?
Vaginismus is typically classified into two types: primary and secondary.
Primary Vaginismus
This occurs when a woman has never been able to achieve vaginal penetration due to involuntary muscle tightening.
Secondary Vaginismus
This develops after a period of normal, pain-free vaginal penetration. A woman who once had no issues, may later begin experiencing involuntary muscle contractions that makes penetration painful or impossible.
What Are The Causes of Vaginismus?
While the exact cause of vaginismus is not always clear, it is commonly linked to emotional, psychological, trauma and or cultural factors.
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Common Contributing Factors Of Vaginismus
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Fear and Anxiety
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Anxiety around penetration, fear of pain, hymen tearing, or the size of the penis can trigger involuntary muscle responses.
Negative Sexual Conditioning
Strict or conservative cultural, religious, or sexual upbringing may create shame, guilt, and anxiety around sexual activities.
Past Trauma
History of sexual abuse or negative sexual experiences may cause vaginismus, as a subconscious protective response.
Medical or Life Events
Secondary vaginismus can occur after childbirth, menopause, pelvic surgery, hormonal changes or other medical events. Pain or trauma during recovery may trigger involuntary muscle spasms with future penetration attempts.
What Are Some Symptoms of Vaginismus?
Symptoms can vary and may include:
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Pain or burning sensation during attempted penetration (e.g. sex, tampon insertion, or exams)
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Involuntary tightening of pelvic or thigh muscles during penetration
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Anxiety or fear about penetration or pelvic exams
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Difficulty using tampons or undergoing gynecological exams
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Painful or unsuccessful intercourse, often described by partners as “hitting a wall”
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Reduced sexual desire due to anticipated pain or frustration
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Emotional distress, such as embarrassment, shame, or feeling broken
Why Choose Vaginismus Treatment at PhysioMatters?
You don’t need to face Vaginismus alone. Many women recover successfully with the help of a Women's Health Physiotherapist, who is trained to guide you through both the physical and emotional aspects of recovery.
Physiotherapy Treatment for Vaginismus
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Physiotherapy focuses on regaining control of your pelvic floor muscles, reducing discomfort, and addressing any psychological triggers linked to vaginal penetration. Treatment includes:
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Patient Education: Understanding your condition empowers you to take control of your body.
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Pelvic Floor Muscle Training: Guided exercises help you relax and coordinate pelvic muscles, reducing involuntary tightening.
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Breathing and Relaxation Techniques: Techniques to reduce anxiety and muscle spasms in the pelvic area.
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Manual Therapy: To treatments to release tight pelvic muscles, reduce discomfort, and improve tissue mobility.
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Desensitisation and Dilator Training: Using vaginal dilators in a structured, step-by-step manner,, you’ll gradually become more comfortable with vaginal insertion.
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Real-Time Ultrasound (RTUS)
Multidisciplinary Support
While physiotherapy is the core of treatment, additional options can support recovery:
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Sex Therapy: Psychosexual therapy addresses the emotional aspects of vaginismus, helping with fears or past trauma.
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Topical Creams: Medication to alleviate discomfort and reduce sensitivity.
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Botulinum (Botox) Injections: In some cases, Botox may be used to relax overactive pelvic muscles, easing the pain of penetration.​​​​​​​​​
Start Healing from Vaginismus Today

You are not alone — and you don’t have to live in silence or discomfort any longer. At PhysioMatters, we understand how isolating and overwhelming vaginismus can feel. Whether it’s been affecting your intimacy, self-esteem, or everyday comfort, help is within reach.
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Your experience is valid, and healing is possible. When you're ready, our gentle and understanding team is here to support you — every step of the way. We’ll work closely with you to create a treatment plan that’s not only tailored to your body, but also honours your pace and emotional wellbeing.
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Reach out today. Let this be the beginning of your journey back to comfort, confidence, and connection — on your own terms.
Frequently Asked Questions About Vaginismus Treatment
​1. Can Vaginismus really be cured, or is it something I’ll have to manage long-term?
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Yes, Vaginismus can be treated and resolved. The key is addressing both the muscular and psychological components. Physiotherapy helps retrain the body, leading to long-term recovery.
2. Why does Physiotherapy work for Vaginismus?
Physiotherapy targets the pelvic floor muscles and teaches the brain to respond differently to triggers. It focuses on neuromuscular retraining, allowing the body to relax and reduce involuntary muscle spasms.
3. What if I’ve tried using dilators before but couldn’t manage it?
You’re not alone, many women face challenges with dilator use. Physiotherapy provides personalised support to address the underlying reasons for difficulty, such as muscle tension or fear. You will take small steps toward comfort.
4. I’m afraid of Internal treatment - will I be forced to try any treatments?
No, physiotherapy is entirely consent-led. Internal techniques are only introduced when you’re ready. Initially, treatment can focus on education and external work to build trust. You are in full control of your session's progression.
5. How long does treatment usually take before I see real change?
Treatment duration varies, with some women you will see progress in 1- 4 sessions, while others may take a few months. Consistency and the right mindset are key to achieving long-term results.
6. Will I be doing exercises or is it more hands-on therapy?
It’s a blend of both. Physiotherapy includes pelvic floor exercises, breathing techniques, hands-on treatment, and home exercises using progressive dilator use.
7. Can Vaginismus come back after I’ve recovered?
Vaginismus can return during high-stress periods, pregnancy, or postpartum. However, with the tools learned in physiotherapy, flare-ups can be managed early.
8. I’ve had trauma in the past. Can I still benefit from physiotherapy?
Yes. Trauma-aware care is an essential part of physiotherapy for Vaginismus. You’ll receive support for your emotional and physical needs, with the option of psychological support if needed.
9. Is this something I can fix with just YouTube or online dilators?
While online resources can help, personalised physiotherapy provides tailored support to address the underlying causes of Vaginismus. Every woman's needs are different, we encourage one to one Physiotherapy sessions rather than a ”one size fits all" approach found on You tube.
10. What’s the first step to getting help for my Vaginismus?
Start by booking a consultation with PhysioMatters, a certified Women’s Health Physiotherapist Clinic. We’ll take a detailed history, answer your questions, and create a personalised treatment plan based on your goals.